In 2024, my son Horry and I decided to attend the Man Alive event.
The theme that year was “Inspiring and supporting men in a changing environment.” Having both been part of men’s groups before, we were already familiar with things like heart-centreed sharing, non-judgmental listening, and confidentiality – all familiar Men’s Table territory.
Even so, we didn’t know exactly what to expect. We just knew the event would be held in the bush, with camping or indoor accommodation available.
We arrived on Thursday afternoon and pitched our tent in a lovely bush setting, among a small group of other campers.
We were welcomed straight away, though it took us a little while to find our feet. The event was beautifully organised, with large group discussions, smaller sharing circles, participant-led sessions, bushwalks, conversations, and even some art and entertainment. The mix of nature, structure, and open-hearted conversation was energising. It was wonderful to be among so many men committed to exploring masculinity, sharing honestly, and learning from one another.
By the end of the weekend, we were fully immersed in it. We left on Sunday with clear intentions for the year ahead, and I carried the experience with me for many months afterwards. Most of all, it was a real privilege to share that weekend with my son. I saw things in him that I deeply admired – and don’t tell him, but he’s now one of my role models!
We enjoyed it so much that we came back in 2025, loved it again, and we’re looking forward to returning in 2026.
As a young man, going into my first Man Alive event in 2024, all I knew was that it was organised by the same men and Committee that hosted “Pathways” – a rite of passage event I attended years ago. I thought I had a rough idea of what it was going to be like.
It was welcoming enough that I didn’t feel any need to just stick with my father. I was making friends with the other men within hours of the event starting.
My expectations were severely surpassed. It was truly magical experiencing such authenticity and connection throughout the entire event. I came out of it inspired and filled with courage, along with a new found love for myself. It was surreal seeing the child-like joy and the sh** eating grin on my father’s face after a Home group meeting, especially after the adversities and struggles my family and I had faced during COVID and its aftermath, as many others have.
This event has created a deeper connection with my father, a strong friendship, and a new common interest! I would highly recommend bringing your son or father along to a Man Alive event if you haven’t already.
Colin, (MT117) and Horry
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